It’s inevitable. My fight in the 3rd NCR Muay Thai Tournament is a rematch with Robert Frese, the US Marine from MAP-QC whom I fought in the last muay thai competition. Rob’s coach, Kru Zhie Vallega has been teasing me in numerous occassions that I should have a rematch. Though I am not sure if another bout with Rob will push thru or not or if Kru Zhie is serious about it, I still stuck to my program and trained hard. I will go to the tournament with the goal of winning whoever my opponent will be.
The return bout became official when Andy, the Technical Director of the tournament showed me the line up of the matches. I formulated 2 scenarios and the corresponding gameplan for the fight with Rob. I am correct with one scenario, that if it will be a technical fight, the better it will be for me because of my experience. But I should have made a 3rd gameplan, I didn’t expect that Rob will be able to play a counterattacker. Whenever I do a roundhouse or a teep, he will try to scoop me or counter with a punch. Serves me right, I wrongfully underestimated that he will not be able to improve his muay thai in such a short span of 5 weeks.
In the heat of the first round, Rob and I were engaged in a clinch when he made a knee strike. Unfortunately, of all places, it hit me in the groin,… right smack in the family jewels. In my years of doing martial arts, I’ve never been hit in the groin. I was only given 3 minutes by the referee to recover or else, he will stop the fight. So even if I still feel that body part being in flames, I have to resume fighting. I know that its accidental and that there’s no need for me to feel vengeful. I just said to myself that its a good thing that I already have a daughter or else, it is the end of my line.
Both Rob and I were cautious in the fight, maybe its a sign that we both respect of what we both can do. My cornerman and my other team mates have been yelling that I do the punch-kick combination that we practiced. Instead, I’ve been very hard headed in that fight and I didn’t listen to what my corner is saying and kept to my own gameplan. I’m guilty of violating the number one rule in muay thai, always listen to your corner. They have observed the match at a distance and know which combinations or techniques will work.
One reason why I was hesitant to throw my kicks is because Rob would always try to scoop my leg and then counter. It’s just a good thing that I know how to defend against a scoop. I am quite confident with my punches so I stuck with it. Instead of using the punch to cover my kicks, I kicked to cover my punch. Near the end of the second round, I saw that Rob is already heavily bleeding from the nose, and thus, having difficulty in breathing. My mistake is that despite what I saw, I still played it cautious and didn’t made any flurries. I am wary that I might outpunch myself and gas out.
In the 3rd round, he was able to scoop my leg when I did a teep. He immediately scooped my legs and threw me to the canvas. Getting up, I am thinking that I may have already lost the match. In the last few seconds of the fight, I connected a jab that find its mark at Rob’s nose. Maybe my jab is strong enough or maybe his nose is really hurting that he turned his back and shook his head. Since the referee didn’t stop the fight yet, I took this opportunity to jump on him and execute several knees on his back. Then the closing bell rang.
I’m not quite sure of what will be the decision of the judges. I feel that Rob might have made enough points to win this match, specially with the scoop that he executed on me. The few seconds or minutes waiting for the result is the most nerve wracking moment in any fight, specially if you know how close the fight had been. I keep on thinking that I should have been more aggressive and hoped that the judges will see it as a draw and will require a 4th round.
When the announcer said that I won the match, I am more surprised with the result than happy with the victory. I’m a very fair person, and I don’t think that it will be good to the sport and will be terribly unfair to Rob if I don’t deserve to win. So I asked my team mates an honest opinion on how I won the match. All my team mates said that this match is better than my previous bout with Rob because I am more technical and connected better muay thai techniques. Although I’ve been very hard headed. Wally even said that the only advantage Rob has over me is that he listened to his corner while I didn’t.
Perhaps what really convinced me that I won the fight fair and square is when one judge, Kru Lucio Macalalad from MAP-Antipolo told me that Rob’s coach, Kru Zhie Vallega asked him how he scored the fight. Kru Lucio said that his score is 30-29 on my favor. He said that I am more technical and landed more kicks and was able to scoop Rob’s kicks which scores high in muay thai. He further said that Rob turned his back at the dying seconds of the third round, which is taken by the judges as a sign of giving up and the referee would have given him a standing 8 count had there been enough time.
The following day, one of Rob’s MAP-QC gym mate texted me and said that Rob was stronger in the fight but I am more technical and added that I played clean with clear muay thai points. I thanked him and told him that he definitely made me feel a lot better.
It’s a cliche but indeed there’s always room for improvement. In a very short time of one month, Rob improved a lot. Just imagine what he can do if given a longer time to train. Likewise, I must also improve my game to keep my fight record unblemished. Though I never let victories get into my head, sometimes, its nice to think that I am still undefeated in muay thai. But if I will not change the way I fight and train harder I may not remain undefeated for long. Martial Arts is always about improvement, dedication, hard work and listening to your coaches.
Sidenote:
When I showed the post-fight picture of me and Rob to my daughter, she couldn’t understand how come we have a picture together with both of us smiling like good old friends despite engaging in a muay thai match minutes earlier. I told her that that’s the essence of sportsmanship. Muay Thai is just a game, a sport. We enter the ring just to test our skills, not to commit murder. After the match and outside the ring, we are all friends. Try as I may to explain, martial arts is a weird way of gaining friends and having fun. Hope I can get to introduce RP to Rob someday.
Me-warming up by doing some shadowboxing

Getting some last minute instructions from my cornerman

Touching gloves-a sign of respect and sportsmanship between opponents

Rob landing a punch after countering my roundhouse

Andre checking me after receiving a low blow (to the groin. Oooouuucccchhhh!!!!) The precious family jewels!!!

The fight resumes

Waiting for the result

Winning the match. I’m surprised with the result and I also understand Rob’s frustrated look

Receiving the trophy from MAP President Robert Valdez and BAP-Former President Freddie Jalasco

With Onyok- my cornerman. He’s a Gold medalist in international amateur muay thai tournaments. He helped me train for this fight.
