“The basic things are losing their value
And the pace of life is so complex
The people around me feel the pressure
But I’ll remain forever young
They want more than they need and
They give more than they could bleed
They feel they’re next in line yet I’ll
Remain forever young

I control the hands of time- much to the
Majority’s dismay
If you’d leave me behind- im a picture
Painted in black and gray
But my colors are inside- when it’s just
Too difficult to see
And I just feel alive- this means so much
To me

Young!! young!! – holding on and taking
Grasp
- a vow that I will last
- ive learned so much from the past
- I’ll remain forever young-  Bob Dylan, Forever Young”

The dreary world of endless routine-work, reading/studying, eating, going home and sleeping- prevented me from writing, despite the many thoughts and ideas that hover around my head.    And I just realized that its been almost a month since I last made an entry to this online journal.   Perhaps by serendipity, while waiting for my daughter to finish her karate class in AAK Megamall, I chance upon an art exhibit sponsored by Gallery Genesis featuring Toti Cerda’s watercolor paintings.  It’s a collection of art works that evokes memories of one’s childhood.  The exhibit is aptly titled, Forever Young.

Each painting in the exhibit seemed to be mirrors to vividly remembered childhood events when life is extremely simple and the world is a lot different.  Perhaps this is the artist’s way of communicating to parents and grown ups that we should allow our children to enjoy childhood, in the same way that we enjoyed it when we were young.    I may not be able to cite statistics but I know a lot of parents today have put considerable amount of pressure on their children by expecting them to achieve things at an early age.   Children will only be young once, then its lost forever.  Parents should learn how to balance between training or ensuring that their children will have a bright future by “starting them young” and by letting their kids be kids.      Also, perhaps the paintings are Toti Cerda’s way of reminding parents that the environment and surroundings that they grew up with are fast disappearing and that we must find ways of preserving them so that their children can also enjoy it.

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My favorite painting in the exhibit is the painting of five young kids walking along a grassy plain, titled “Tutubi Gang”.  First, except for the human figures, the grasses were painted almost in the style of Monet’s post impressionism.  (Claude Monet is my favorite painter).  Second, I have countless fond memories of crossing grassy plains with my childhood friends in search for dragonflies, firelies, and spiders.   We have no care whether the grass will make us itchy or for any thorns or broken pieces of trees that could scratch us or for anything that we might step on, be it mud or animal dung.

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The painting below is Beck’s favorite, as this brings back memories of her younger years when she and her two siblings would use the wall of their house as one big blackboard.

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Very often, I would pity my daughter for not experiencing the simple joy of playing in the rain.    I think this is one of the privileges enjoyed by children born to poor families, myself included.   Middle and upper class parents would not let their children go out in the streets and have the pleasure of playing in the rain.

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